Sunday, January 1, 2012

Becoming A Baby Fairy

After giving birth to my second child, I was extremely grateful for my beautiful, healthy baby, but I was also mourning the end of the pregnancy. My husband & I had decided that baby #2 was it for us, we were happy with our 2 boys, and didn't plan to have any more children. Then one day while watching the show “The Little Couple” on TLC, I learned about surrogacy. Watching another couple struggle with the reality of not being able to have a child in the traditional way made me realize just how special having a child of your own can be. It also made me think of my own pregnancies and how beautiful and wonderful I felt throughout each of them and how happy I was to be pregnant. I was very comfortable with this decision to not have any more children of my own, however, I was sad at the thought of not ever being able to experience another pregnancy. I knew that if I could, I would love to be able to make a difference in the lives of a couple who was also struggling with having a child of their own. One thing to be sure and note, I was NOT going to donate my eggs. I wanted only to be the 'oven' for the 'bun'. The child would have no genetic connection to my husband or me. 

Now I just had to figure out how to become a surrogate and how to convince my family and friends that I wasn't completely insane for volunteering to do this. :) 

~The Baby Fairy 

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